mis mejores amigos

yaaro dosti badi hi haseen hai

ye na ho to bolo kya hai zindagi hai

i thrive on my friends. without them my life is incomplete. my idea of a perfect day would be one which ends with a nights drive with friends to any place. a cup of coffee, a beer or a hookah - anything will do. and lots n lots of bakwaas. abt cars careers trips and plans and ofcourse girls. when friends meet, magic happens. truly.

i was never like this before. infact i had started believing that people make friends only to serve their own ends. to quote chanakya "There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth".

the truth in fact as i realised, is farther from it. true, your best friends can only be tested in times of adversity but friends you make not to wait for those times. they are there to have fun. to talk to when u really need somebody. to scold you and to pamper you. to help you squander your money and to help them waste theirs. to ruin your health and help them ruin theirs. to help u get in trouble and then to bail you out. to actually fuck life.....together :)

As someone sometime said "An old friend will help you move. A good friend will help you move a dead body". Friends will walk in while the rest of the world is walking out. :)

progenitor dillema resolved

all good things in life must not be savored. the more incomplete the fulfilling is the more want for it is created and the more you want to run after something the better your life becomes, the happier, more excited you get.

simple rule. you dont have to apply it. it'll apply on its own. just observe. and apply it will to anything. games, work, girls, food, cars, anything!
the game you're playing gets over. the girl you are chasing, agrees! the chocolate pie you've been wanting to eat for so long, you finally get to eat it. now what. its over! its like a dog. it chases a car. thats its life. what if the car stops? well, he turns around and runs after another.
that chocolate pie is your dream perhaps. and you can spend your whole life running behind that dream. what will you be doing once you get it? relax? then why don't you relax now? i don't know where this piece is heading but one thing is for sure. we live that dog kind of life.

if we ever had any animal ancestors it were dogs and not monkeys. just look at yourself. there is no monkeylike thing in us. we dont even have a red butt. we live that dog kind of life. monkeys help each other when in distress. dogs? dogs stare. and keep staring. they cannot help. thats what humans do. and i dn know about monkeys but you think dogs are faithful? they are the most promiscuous of the animals. they are not faithful. they are faithful to their masters. only to them. can you get the similarity now? are you faithful? to whom?